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James
59 Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 70
Weight: 89 kg (196 lb)
Hello , I know in reality 99.9% of these likes and emails do not result in a real meeting. NOT A CURRENT PAYING MEMBER /A FORMER DIAMOND MEMBER To my disappointment responses were likes based on a photo and did not read my profile. After I emailed them, back they would finally read my profile and decide I am not what they want. While it is frustrating , I am still trying to find my match. Ideally, I would like to take you out to lunch or dinner for some conversation. I am still hopeful I will find a personality that meshes with mine. while traveling the world is my favorite hobby, For me , to really connect with someone as I need them by my side ,not emailing back and forth . I am not really into intermittent cyber chat . So , Lets' get together and see if our personalities, and goals in life work well together . I am very slow with responding and since I am in the USA right now emails here are the best option . I AM NOT INTERESTED IN SEEING ANYONE N*DE AND I AM NOT LOOKING FOR CYBER S*X CHAT! Yes, I am KINKY in the private bedroom. I am Sub and Dom and that will actually limit the number people truly interested in me for a long term relationship. I understand I am not the right fit for 99% of the profiles on this site, but I just need the 1 right person to want me . For me, their is no sense in hiding who I am from a potential life mate. I truly believe in BETTER THE BITTER TRUTH THAN SWEET LIES. My past relationships had issues and I am here attempting not to repeat them . HERE ARE MY LIFESTYLE TRAITS THAT MADE ISSUES IN PAST RELATIONSHIPS : 1.) Finances ; I work a lot and live very nice lifestyle but I am not a ATM with no limits. 2.) Sexual compatibility ; I am totally monogamous. However, I am highly sexual and kinky person which may be to intense for some. 3.) I am not always the most attentive to my partner. In the past I focus to much on work and my education. I am a life long learner. If you can accept my personality traits, I will make a very loyal mate for you I am honest, aggressive and direct in business, yet still loyal and humble to my mate. I like to travel as a hobby. Are you really OK traveling with me or are OK with me away for a few months at a time? I totally am fine with you already having children, but I know making sure every child has a good education is more important than you traveling with me. My choice in life has always been monogamy .So if I am with you I am with just you. I just do not ever sleep around ! This this can be a serious relationship issue if my mate has a lower sexual drive. I am looking for a woman that is respectful like myself in public and every bit my equal kinky partner private Past relationships have fallen apart due to this part of my nature and I do not wish to repeat it . I really believe that the most attractive part of the body is the brain and I am always receptive to meeting new friends with interesting or different life experiences. My Ideal match accepts other people’s opinions that are totally different still have validity and should never be demeaned. I was born poor ( relative to my environment) . I earn a modest stable income and will never be rich by American Standards unless WE win the lottery . However, I do have a happy, comfy lifestyle. Designer clothes are nice for special occasions, but if being bathed in designer clothes and ultra-high-end amenities is your long-term desire for a daily wardrobe ; we are not compatible in the long run . My primary education was less than Ideal . However, my post-secondary education is quite diverse and will continue through the rest of my life. If you are not inquisitive about things beyond what you already know; we are not compatible in the long run . I am upfront about myself and my past . if you cannot be truthful about your past and present we are not compatible. If you are part of a privileged upper class, street sex worker, or the average individual ; I just need you to be honest. I am trying to find my one and only. For me a relationship is not just based on a photo and a few lines of text or just great sex. I am here for something much more. So If you are divorced ,have children that need my support, homeless, I encourage you to please l respond as you may be a good fit for me because you have much life experience. Respectfully, Jim ( Yes, that is even my real name) It is hard to sell yourself with out sounding arrogant . I may be driven, but I am also quite humble. All my past emails are gone as I have been off this site for many months . For now , It is difficult to chat due to the time difference and decision to hold off on becoming a paying member for now.
Lucas
32 Barnstable, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 33
Weight: 84 kg (185 lb)
Philip
53 Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 47
Weight: 93 kg (205 lb)
While I’m still figuring this all out, here’s something I know for sure— I still believe there is the perfect match out there for everyone. The chance to meet a unique, engaging, and interesting women is what I'm hoping for. If you think you might fit that mold, drop me a message. I work in the IT industry. And while I like to work hard, I make sure to leave time to enjoy life. I’m a fan of sports, movies, hiking, and getting out of town for the weekend. I am still somewhat cautious about believing this site can really help me find a soul mate. I have children (3) that are at different stages of their life. I enjoy attending their activities at school and sports as well as being involved with them as they grow. If you have children I am sure you understand what a joy that is and how they keep us young at heart. Outside of work I lead an active lifestyle. I go to the gym at least 3 times a week, I play basketball during my lunchtime every chance I get and being outside taking a walk, biking on the trails or just window shopping walking through the city is better than sitting on the couch. I don't mind being inside on the couch watching a movie so long as someone is with me cuddled up and enjoying each others company. Are you a summer or winter person? I love summer and spend every weekend I can at the lake. My friends have boats and we water ski (hydrofoil if you want to google that) and hangout together on the water to swim and take in the sun. As summer ends and fall changes the leaves it is beautiful to see the colors paint the midwest countryside. Sitting outside on a patio with a hot cup coffee and crisp air is perfect for talking, reading and relaxing. In my next 3 years I plan to retire and start a new chapter in my life. I'd love to find the perfect companion to write those chapters with. I try to stay current with the challenges facing the world and especially Ukraine. The tragedy and struggles occurring today are hard to face. I do hope you, your family and friends are safe and will remain that way. I look forward to the day when you are free and without war-- Slava Ukraini

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