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Lu
44 Rio de Janeiro, Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
Seeking: Male 38 - 55
Body style: Average
This will seem like a rant, but the truth is that I'm tired, and we need to have some filter. The consumerist thinking of our post-modern society has extrapolated to human relationships. We consume the other and simply move on to the next. But we also inevitably become objects of consumption for others. Consciously or not, we are the cause of our own unhappiness. What prevents love from manifesting itself fully is our fierce individualism. Modern relationships do not allow true love, since there is no absolute surrender. In a relationship you can feel as insecure as without it. Love is surrender and consistency. Love remains. What we see today comes down to desire. Desire consumes, and desire is extinguished. Move on to the next one. And so we lose who we love or who we could love. If you can take the risk of love, if you have the courage to abandon the insane search for infinite new things and just be constant, have security and really believe in only one unique thing for life, then we can talk. If you continue to seek adventures and momentary satisfactions, don't waste my time or yours. Consider time as something limited and doesn’t make sense wasting it. You always have the possibility of making more money, but there is no possibility of making more time. I do not wish to use this finite resource in vain. For this reason, I am only willing to invest in a relationship if it has the potential to last until the end. Sorry to be long and perhaps exhausting, but I'm tired of meaningless conversations that goes nowhere with people who don't know exactly what they want. I don't care about money, that's very small, I want something big, I want a whole person. Commitment, purpose, surrender and unity forever. FOREVER is not an exaggeration! Yeah, It's funny how this is so unusual nowadays that it immediately seems like a dubious idea. This is our sick society, with inverted values. It's not tiring to stay with the same person forever, it's tiring to keep changing person all the time. What happened to our competence? Love is first and foremost a choice. Yes, a choice, a decision. Its not a chance, not just a feeling. It is a construction, it is respecting the other as a human being, seeing the other as an equal, and from this perspective of humility, building a story with meaning. A thousand shallow stories are not worth one deep story. I seek depth. 🌹

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